People are often surprised when I tell them I'm a deeply introverted person. After all, I speak in front of audiences, facilitate workshops, and spend much of my volunteer work connecting with people. To many, that looks like extroversion. But being good with people and being energized by people are very different things. In this article, I explore introversion, social energy, emotional bandwidth, and the invisible cost that often exists behind competence.
Maybe yours is caregiving. Maybe you’re parenting. Maybe you’re in the middle of a demanding project at work. Maybe you’re supporting someone you love through a difficult time – or grieving something yourself. And maybe it happens to be several things piled on top of each other. It’s what I refer to as “A High-Load Season”.
So I'm about to offer a flavour of Mindfulness that doesn't require much longer than it takes to heat up that cup of coffee. Because contrary to the way it's sometimes branded – even small, intentional pockets of Mindfulness sprinkled into your day can have a pretty profound impact on your emotional well-being. And your resilience.
So what is “silent stress”? It’s generally defined as the subtle, accumulated – and often unnoticed – tension that can build up as a result of the stressful things in life. Bottled up emotions… financial difficulties… over-work… health issues… or just being super-busy. The problem is that unlike a major breakdown or obvious overwhelm, it quietly creeps in under our radar.
We hear a lot about setting boundaries. “Protect your time.” “Say no.” “Set firm limits.” But let’s be honest… “Big boundaries” advice doesn’t always translate well into our real daily life. Enter: Micro-Boundaries
Forty episodes ago, I thought I was starting a podcast. Turns out, I was unknowingly practising exposure therapy. In this post, I share what happens when you repeatedly face fear, why being seen feels so threatening to the brain, and how showing up - imperfectly - can quietly build confidence, resilience, and self-trust over time.